Who am I ? A human first…

We have recently been into some social work, though I don’t like putting it forward as “work”. We have really mixed in with these three young sisters, who we teach with so much passion and hope.

These three have taught me how to shake it off and LIVE when things are not in favor; smile everyday like never before; challenge the people who think you are less and walk with dignity wherever you go.

The three of them always greet me every morning with a pleasant “Good morning, Didi” which by magic, drives away all my stress and makes the start of my day all the more cheery.

Two days ago, we celebrated the birthday on one of these girls. We did cake cutting, put on some music and had a mighty energetic dance followed by a tired bunch of us. French fries, juices, pizzas, etc had really satiated our hunger.

After few days, when I asked the eldest one what she wanted to become when she grows up, the reply was touching. It left me pondering.

She said, “I want to be like Ma’am (My Mom). Yes! I want to become a teacher. She has taught us passionately and taken so much pain and effort to get us admitted in a school. I have full gratitude for her and that being inspired by her; when I grow up, I would like to help others the way she helped us…”

Analyzing the reply, I realized that how one humanitarian act leads to another; how one moral value inculcated in a person leads to virtue and optimism in and around; how an ideal can actually inspire and influence the world…

The world really needs good people who can lead; lead to a greater, habitable and morally invincible society…Let’s try to be one.

 

~besondersite

 

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The power of Introverts. And why I am proud to be one…

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Neither an orator, nor a speaker. A man does not always need to socialize to lead a happy and cheerful life. This is where an extraordinary mind of an ordinary introvert sets in as an ideal example.

An introvert should not be confused as a shy person; he uses his oratory skills wisely by responding only when required. He neither pours out his words like torrential rainfall, nor does he keep himself in isolation or is deserted.

Introverts are more focused and determined. Therefore, their productivity is higher than that of a normal or talkative person.

Scientific research has proven that people who talk less, often have vivid imagination and creative minds along with prodigious problem solving capacity.

An introvert has the power or ability to think out of the box and generally, expresses himself through writing, art or music. This quality of his sets him apart from others. His method of expression does not go useless either, instead it captures the attention of many and recognized by the society as ‘masterpiece’.

Albert Einstein, Rosa Parks, Bill Gates, Sir Isaac Newton, Mark Zuckerberg…
Yes! All of them are some of the most famous introverts of the world; and they have made history; they have done what nobody else did before…

Introverts are self-sufficient and independent people. They make, create and destroy their life all by themselves. If nobody is there to hold their hand, they walk by themselves. They have peace of mind and solitude, which is why, they don’t pick up fights or quarrel with anybody often.

They have a mechanism of their own- own joy, own sorrow, own ways, own rules and nobody to blame.

People think that as they do not share their emotions verbally, they might be very weak, broken or gullible, but actually its otherwise. Introverts are emotionally and mentally very strong people because they have learnt self-control and tolerance. They have real sharp minds as they are observant and perceive everything that goes around them. These are the real intelligent and clever people who notice all the little things and have studied life more deeply than the rest of the world. They are actually, a treatise on the philosophy of the living world.

It is no doubt, that I am proud to be an introvert; and love to express myself and my perspectives through writings and art. I am pretty happy with the success I have achieved till date and continue to strive for perfection.

No introvert should consider himself as inferior or disconnected from the outer world. Because you are a really precious and exquisite gem for the world. The world needs peace; the world needs introverts.

“No one can beat an introvert, if he is determinedย and holds a strong will power to make his own way through the crowd with courage”

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~ Besondersite
Start each day with a grateful heart…

 

 

Happy Thanksgiving!!

Thanksgiving is one of my favorite days of the year because it reminds us to give thanks and to count our blessings. Suddenly, so many things become so little when we realize how blessed and lucky we are.

I am thankful for…

  1. Just being Prerna, myself
  2. Being alive and to be fortunate enough to see the sun rise every day.
  3. A crazy sister whose presence is something I value and enjoy.
  4. Homely home and worldly pleasures
  5. My height. Can look straight above all heads ๐Ÿ˜‚
  6. All the sweet food and much-upons.
  7. Having such close connection to nature, understanding it well and getting highly influenced by it ๐Ÿ˜Š.
  8. My flowing long hair which compliment me so well.
  9. How can I forget the novels? They are my life and my pride.
  10. The wonderful opportunity to start a blog and the height this site has achieved till date.
  11. Terrific and incredible friends who have matched shoulder with me in every situation, as well as played a leading role in all the nuisance we created !!
  12. Blogger friends; picked exclusively from different corners of the world, who have motivated and inspired me throughout this blogging journey of mine.
  13. All the adventures and misadventures, which have taught me important lessons of life in the most indirect ways!
  14. My comfy pillow and cosy quilt
  15. Science!!
  16. Healthy eyes and not having to bear the torment of spectacles.
  17. A brain that has made me achieve so much praise and honor.
  18. The smile on my face ๐Ÿ˜Š.
  19. Having a good sleep everyday!! ๐Ÿ’ค
  20. All the love that gets showered on me by so many people who make me feel that I am really needed in their lives ๐Ÿ’œ.

And the counting goes on…

~~”Start each day with a grateful heart”~~

 

 

 

The Eclipse and the Solstice

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As the night approached, natural luminous lights slowly adorned the sky. The moon unleashed its divinity and gave out a somber glow to light the path of little Ru.

Ru couldn’t bear the thought of her dearest Grandma being a witch, a sorceress and moreover a “bad woman”.

She ran as fast as her little feet could take her, along the trail lit by her Uncle, Moon. Coming across a refreshing pool, she sat down and thought of the old happy days she had with Grandma. She remembered how the woman cuddled and snugged her up when she was cold. Her lap used to be the most comfortable place for Ru. But now, as she thought, it was filled with impeity and blood of her subjects.

Ru looked down helplessly at the scar on her right arm. It was a witness of her terrible history. She gathered the phosphorescent pool water in her little palms and gently washed the wound. Looking all over the place, for the first time she realised that the place was quite unusual. Everything was so luminous, magical and dreadfully beautiful.

She stared at her reflection in the pool water for a long time, until she could make out a figure of a woman wearing a white robe with pearl headdress. A sense of familiarity struck her as a voice echoed from beneath,

” Go ahead my child.
What your mind says is absolutely true.
The world needs you.
Your subjects need you.
And your mum is with you, in all what you do…”

 


~Besondersite

 

Hot and cold – at peace โ›…

 

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Photo challenge: hot and/or cold

Hot and cold are opposites of each other. Ever thought that they could make peace with each other and settle at the same place? Such wonders happen only in nature’s magnificent bounty.

The calm and cold water flows beneath the fierce and raging sun. Both face each other smiling, appreciating each other and making everyone marvel at their glory. The sun makes his best rays fall on the water to add a shimmer to the scenery. While the water calms the short tempered sun by the bubbling and splashing of it waves against the shore.

Mother nature holds both of them in the same lap and treat them with equal affection. Such is the splendour and elegance of what is around us- Nature and only nature, which is created by Him.

 

 

~Besondersite

 

 

One lovely blog award!!

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I have been nominated for many glorious awards recently and I was not able to do the posts for them. Please accept my apologies and thank you for thinking of me as worthy of those lovely awards ๐Ÿ˜Š.

Rishabh nominated me for “the lovely blogger award”. He writes wonderfully and is going to start writing book reviews which I’m looking very much forward to !!

Rules:

7 RANDOM FACTS ABOUT ME

( Bonus facts to make up for other awards too! )

  1. I absolutely hate lizards and turn totally insane when the pesky little thing enters my room!!
  2. I love eating different cuisines and trying out new things.
  3. I am really good at making PowerPoint presentations.
  4. I love to do coding with python and Java in my free time.
  5. I love traveling.
  6. I am very much nocturnal.
  7. I love horses and giraffes ( we are very alike ) ย !!
  8. Snow clad mountains are my type of place!
  9. I love photography and blogging.
  10. I am good at nail art but I cannot put an eyeliner nicely.
  11. And I have a good sense of humour!!
  12. I love wild Flora and fauna!!
  13. I like playing basketball, badminton and table tennis (basketball being my favorite!).
  14. I do not like chocolates at all! (But I can eat a choco fudge cake or brownie with utmost delight ๐Ÿ˜‹ yumm! I won’t share! )

~~~AND THE NOMINEES ARE~~~

1.Jim
2.Ritu.
3. Marilyn Armstrong
4.Pawan
5.Just Brittany moments
6.ankanda
7. Swosti Das
8. AloyFerns
9. Ed Lehming Photography
10. Shweta
11. Dennis Wagoner
12. Memadtwo
13. Bg
14. Pooja
15. Adashof Jhaee
16. Himadri Roy
17. Colors of my life
18. Margaret from soulfood101blog
19. Fauxcroft
20. Avid Observer
21. Idealize blog
22. Stoneronarollercoaster
23 Esther
24. Glรผksgeist
25. Harsh, fab writings
26. Candid Hunter productions
27. Maitri
28. J.A.Allen
29. Jo
30. Kirizar
31. Lee, goldenpinkjournal
32. JoAnna
33. Sunain banga
34. Sparsha Mishra
35. Gayatri Sharma

These are my recent blogger-friends. If I have missed out somebody, please consider yourself nominated too! Let’s spread the bogging love ๐Ÿ’œ.

And..and..and…I would feel so happy if you do the post as I would love to know more about you guys ๐Ÿ˜.

~Have a nice day !!